Friday, December 11, 2009

Things That Men Hate in Bed

Men love women and having sex, but their idea of a good sac attack exclude the following:


Numb partners
When men try to convince women to have sex, the very conservative first timers usually think sex is a man’s job, a one-way traffic. So they just lie down and expect to be lavished. Men hate that. They want women who kiss them back, touch them and hold them even during the actual intercourse.

Men want sex to be reciprocal and sometimes they want to be the one lie down while their partners do kinky things to them. They don’t want women who are too coy and are not confident or sensitive enough to return the favor and perform. Men, like women, also want to be satisfied.

Shy partners
Sex can be very awkward especially the first time; we tend to be nervous and anxious and don’t seem to know what to do. But one thing’s for sure, sex and anything that comes with it feels good. That’s natural instinct. That’s why men hate women who are too embarrassed to even moan when they feel good or show on their faces that they’re loving the moment.

When women give in to sex but are taken aback midway through the deed, the situation becomes even more awkward. Men want to know that what they’re doing is ok, and for the women to open up a bit. The sound of a woman moaning and asking for more is like ecstasy to a man.

Making him the first move all the time
When dating, it’s normal for men to initiate sex, as part of pursuing the woman. And the series of sexual escapades after that is still a man’s ball game. However, when the couple becomes comfortable with each other a man also wants to be turned on, and for the woman to initiate sex once in a while.

It’s part of the relationship evolution. Men hate it when women always wait for them to make the move even when they’re really horny. Men love women who know what they want and aren’t ashamed to ask for it.

Sticking to the same thing
Men love surprises as much as women do, especially in the sac. Sex can become very boring if you do it in the same place again and again, or following the exact same process whenever you do it, kissing first, touching each other, optional oral sex, then finally going all the way in the missionary position.

Men want bed moments to vary, that’s why they like love-affairs, the sex is unpredictable. That’s how it should be every now and then. Men want women who do kinky things they don’t normally do like start with a long oral action, doing a quickie in a bizarre place or wearing hot lingerie and performing a strip tease. They hate it when women don’t make any effort to excite them.

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