Don’t you just love watching a sexy Hollywood film with your partner and start getting in the mood for sex during the hottest scenes of the movie? It’s a good way to excite and remind each other how much you’d want to make love.
But what if he wants to raise the ratings to triple X? Should you go for it or would you rather have sex with no on screen couple moaning like dogs while you and your partner are at it? How exactly does pornography affect your sex life? Does it increase your sexual appetite for each other, or does it bring sexual attraction down to zero?
Several women have complained about having partners addicted to pornography. In some cases, females catch their partners masturbating towards a web cam girl and majority of them claim that this porn addiction is the reason why they hardly have sex anymore, as the man would just rather watch promiscuous videos and have sex with his hand instead. The truth? Yes maybe a little porn at FIRST will spice things up, but reality is, it will be a woman’s greatest competition in bed, and even with a man’s heart.
1) Pornography is addictive.
Yes, pornography can be as intoxicating as cocaine or hard liquor. Once a man gets hooked, he’ll find it hard to go a day without watching it and doing the activity that complements porn. And that’s why many women find themselves lying in bed unsatisfied. Men will find themselves only being aroused by visually stimulating scenes instead of his partner’s naked body.
2) Pornography changes a man’s views.
We all know that as relationships get older so does a woman’s face. Even if you try so hard to look attractive, somehow you can never be as eye catching as you were when you and your partner were still dating. Pornography does the same with sexual attraction, it’s damaging. A man will eventually want his partner to be as kinky as the porn star and he’ll fantasize that he’s having sex with one too. But how on earth can you compare yourself to a nymph looking creature with double D breasts and what not. At a certain point in time a woman will have to be extra sexy to get laid because a man forgets that other than attraction it’s love and chemistry that made him want to have sex with his partner in the first place.
3) Pornography supports a man’s laziness.
Oh this is so true. Men just keep getting lazier by the minute especially when it comes to having sex with the same partner. Sure, a woman can take control but if he could just get an orgasm without having to perform and going through such a long process then he’d definitely take the chance. Plus he’ll get a live show alright, better than your not so erotic strip tease. So he won’t miss love making that much if he can just cum almost as fast as lightning.
4) Pornography turns passion into sadomasochism.
When men fantasize too much respect flies out the window as he turns his woman into a porn star forgetting that she has sex out of love. Sometimes a woman would be forced to go beyond the usual level of experimentation for the sake of satisfying her man especially now that the competing market is quite intense. The woman then becomes a machine because her partner disregards her need for excitement, passion and emotional connection.
5) Pornography supports perversion, perversion promotes infidelity.
If men can fantasize so much over sexy stars and whatever provocative material you could think of, then don’t be surprised if he’ll start desiring other women as well. Too much porn watching will definitely cause perversion to materialize. The tendency is that if a man sees another attractive woman he is more likely to want to pounce on her, because he can’t get enough of the mania and fantasy of porn that he’d want to bring it to the real world, only this time leaving his real partner out of it.
1 comment:
I enjoyed the beginning of this post but felt that it became a little sexist by the end. Perhaps you have heard too many stories of men who act similar in regards to this topic? Don't get me wrong, problems like this can materialize. Sometimes men get the wrong idea of sex at a young age, and it takes a change within oneself to adjust that. The result is a man who views sex in a mature way. However, this post seemed like a personal vent rather than something informative. Porn isn't a woman's greatest competition in bed or for a man's heart. That's the equivalent of saying all men are shallow. Fantasies, which everyone has, are nice, but in the end a real person (man) will choose reality. Physical touch, smell, taste, hearing, and yes, even sight. Hopefully I didn't come off too strong, I was just trying to shed some light from a man's perspective. Good luck with your blog and take care.
-Kevin 24/m
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