Monday, December 21, 2009

Oops I did it again! (What to do when he catches you with a sex toy)


Everyone knows that one of the things that concerns a man most often is how to get his girl to orgasm. Not being able to fulfill that usually makes him feel less of a man. So how do you think he will react if he catches you jamming yourself with a realistic dildo or quivering with intense pleasure while rubbing that mini vibe on your clit? What will you do? Will you give up the sex toy? Or will you share the momentous experience with him so that next time you won't have to hide?

Here's what you do when he runs into your solo moments...

Don't stop

Show him that you're aware of his presence and yet you want to continue pleasuring yourself because the sight of him makes you more horny, and that you want to seduce him by letting him see you making yourself climax. After the shock, he will be turned on and he will feel that you are suggesting to have sex.

Make a sexy apology

If he's a little upset tell him that you're sorry for not being open about your sex toy fetish in a needy and seductive tone. But tell him that the toy is not a replacement, rather a complement to your sex life that enhances your sexual cravings, preparing you for your nightly intercourse's. He'll realize how hard you work on trying to spice up your sex life.

Invite him to toy land

If he's a little queasy about toys, invite him to use it on you first. Or give him a little show again. He'll love the fact that he's now a part of your fantasies. Afterwards, use the toy on him. Rub your vibrator on his shaft or on his perineum. He'll LOVE it. Show him that you want to share the toy because you want him to feel good too. You can also give him a little oral while rubbing the vibe. When he's acquainted to your sex toy fetish and the toys itself, it's guaranteed you'll become playmates in no time.

1 comment:

Indi said...

Well let's face it a sex toy never goes limp, it doesn't snore, it goes on forever, it fits in you purse, you can pop it under your pillow ... the list is endless...