No O’s today? Why? You know you tried hard. But it’s the “I” word that you got instead: Inorgasmia.
Inorgasmia is the inability to reach an orgasm, which occurs in 10% of women. There are three types of inorgasmia; it can be caused by a medical condition, a substance like drugs, alcohol or medication, or there can be no physical or psychological reason at all, which is why it’s common for women to fake an orgasm because some hardly get it through intercourse alone.
An orgasm happens at the height of sexual stimulation. Some commit to onanism (reaching climax through masturbation) just to get an orgasm, either by using their hands or sex toys.
An average orgasm in women lasts for about 20 seconds. Wouldn’t you be jealous to know that Pigs’ orgasms last 30 minutes each? The good news is you can have as many as 134 orgasms in an hour, while the males, only 16 (because we know you're dying to find out).
Orgasms are not just for feeling good. They do multi-tasking because they trigger the release of endorphins (which are powerful painkillers) and cause vigorous muscle activity, which increases blood flow, curing headaches and menstrual cramps.
Cleopatra insisted on having at least 2 orgasms a day. You can too by following these new techniques:
Take charge - Guys don't just lie back hoping to have an orgasm - they pick a thrusting style to suit them. Women need to do the same and take control.
Grind. The trick to achieving orgasm is to put pressure on your clitoris by rotating your pelvis during sex.
Let go and let “O”- Stop thinking of sex having a start, middle and end. You could orgasm from an oral sex session or a quickie against the bathroom wall.
Do it yourself - Don’t be ashamed. Tear down the walls and let them know you’re going solo. Masturbation, if not the best, is still one of the best ways to have an orgasm.
Don’t force it If it’s coming enjoy it, don’t anticipate so much as you can’t force an orgasm. Think about how good you’re feeling and before you know it, you’re at the peak of pleasure.
1 comment:
i wanna hear myself say that toooo!
I'm a 41 year old woman and althow i enjoy having sex with my housband, i'm disapointed for the fact that i've NEVER had an orgasm. I hear that for many women it just comes natural , but sadly it isn't my case.
Althow i know many women have the same problem, and my comment is of no surpise to anyone, i want to do my best and find a solution.
I've been thinking that maybe my housband isn't as tender and loveable as he should, but curiosity has never pushed me so far as to cheat on him with another man. Should i? Could change be a solution?
I've tried all sorts of pills and aphrodisiacs, but nothing so far...
If you have any advise, please reply to this comment. I've just started posting for a couple of days, so i'll be checking in often :)
Thank you!
Potenta
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